Just had an interesting conversation with my cousin when my aunt and him popped by my place to pay respect to my "deceased" granny.

He had just gotten himself back on the dating scene, apparently he had been seeing a lot of "actions" recently. (Please note, my actions referring to DATES only). I must admit, everytime i see him, he keep looking better and better. Lucky bastard.

Anyway, he was telling me his philosophy about love and relationships. To him, it seems to boil down or so he claimed to find the scientific explanation to love and relationships. It is simply all about self - interest!

To further explain, in a relationship, if you were to ask GIRL A on why she likes GUY A

GIRL A: I love him for his sincerity, his love, his maturity, his looks, his experiences ...etc...

But the truth is, it is all about the simple fact that GUY A can make GIRL A HAPPY rite?It is all about him making her happy. You are comfortable with that guy or girl not because of all the many qualities he/she has, it is just simply you are happy with her/him. Hence isn't it all boils down to self interest? It's all about ME , MYSELF and I!

To a huge or large extent, i have to admit to what my in-house love professor aka my cousin aka Marcel had said. Recently , something similar happened to me, one of my friend asked me why i liked a particular colleague, i couldn't answer the question. I cannot tell him in exact words what attracted me to her. I could only tell him simply "you know, i just think i can picture both of us holding hands together". By that i mean, i know i can be happy with her IF she did become my gf. Unfortunately, i realised i could be living in my own little imagination. (but that's another entry)